the blame game

when i started this blog, i'll admit it, i was a bit 'racialized' in my mentality. as in, the issue of natural hair was as simple as, "white people and white business places won't tolerate natural hair... black people need to band together and support one another in the struggle... black power."but, honestly, that mentality is very outdated and isn't even consistent with the REALITY of my life.at