re: the hot mess post

okay, so i withheld my opinion on my "hot mess" post, so here it is...1. black women — no matter the complexion — can have long, healthy hair. it's just that our knowledge of how to manage and grow it has been systematically denigrated over time, and needs to be restored. (hence this blog...)2. in agreement with SLY's comment on the "hot mess" post; it is true that not all black men think the