i did a big-girl thing yesterday

yes, that's right. i trimmed my hair.now, like most black women, i have an almost-physical aversion to scissors, and i also suffer from the "it doesn't matter that my hair is breaking/wilted/bleached-within-an-inch-of-its-life i'll still keep it' syndrome. so, understandably, i went into denial when my ends started getting bad. "there's nothing wrong with uneven ends," i told myself. "yes there