what are we doing to our hair?

so, i came across this during my internet research and it broke my heart. i mean, i don't want to knock the relaxed women out there... i've seen beautiful heads of relaxed hair. but reading this just made me think, 'how do we justify this self-destruction?' i don't know, sometimes i wonder what our hair would say if it could talk to us. probably something along the lines of, 'why can't you leave